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Be direct. "It's been great, but I have other things to take care of (or get to bed if night). See you later!"
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They literally asked "oh, what do you have to take care of?" I said "I have an oil change scheduled" and they said "oh I can go with you"
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"No thanks"
Look, I understand, I have social anxiety, but you just need to say what you want and move on. Of they don't like it, then they don't like it - who cares?
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This. I think this person has just shown that it's really important to set boundaries with them, and not worry if they like it.
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Or better yet, don’t assume whether they’ll like it or not.
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Tell them, "Sure! You can ride in the trunk 👍"
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Hah!
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“My wife and I planned something special for tonight and I have to do my anal douche.”
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Well, I am gay so... you're not wrong.
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"You're not going to believe this, but I brought my anal douche, just in case you wanted to douche together!"
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That person desperately needs someone in their life to tell them the truth.
“I am done hanging out. I need to be alone now”
Some people are autistic and as an autistic person myself believe me when I say there is like one in ten thousand people who will actually tell the truth, and they only do it once in a blue moon.
Be that person.
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It happens. Sometimes just "I need some personal time."
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“That would be fun but after that I have to xxxxxxx for my mom, then….xxxxxx”
Imply the ‘no’ - that would be butttttt nope.
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