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Women Who Constantly Complain About Their BF But Never Leave

I am a woman and I have experienced an abusive relationship but I LEFT.

I honestly don't even wanna hear it. I give advice based on my personal experience and they just never wanna hear it. I waste my time telling them how much happier they would be if they left & all that stuff JUST FOR THEM TO GO BACK TO THE ABUSIVE MAN. I find it pathetic. I'm sick of having to constantly be empathetic towards this when women refuse to help themselves by leaving. Be stronger and know you deserve better.

If you think you deserve the shitty treatment/abuse fine THEN STAY but be quiet and quit complaining if you don't wanna do better by yourself🙄

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  • You wanna know why?

    Because your experience is not theirs.

    Your situation is not theirs.

    Your LIFE is not theirs.

    You don't know what else they are going through under the hood, mental illness, maybe no job and nowhere to go, or no family, or straight up fear of being murdered.

    Just because YOU did it, doesn't mean the next person has the willpower, or means to do so. You should try showing some compassion instead of ranting your fefe's about someone else's personal choices.

    Maybe next time stop telling them that they should leave while coming to the Internet to complain about how they just won't and your tired of it.

    My mom was married to a physically abusive asshole (not my dad) and my little sister spent the first 16 years of her life watching things unfold. It took her years to squander away money, and she tried and tried again to leave. You know when she did, after her sister and mother died months apart and she just happened to inherit enough resources to get the fuck out properly. The only thing I was able to do was stand by and watch it unfold. He stopped his bullshit for a year or so after getting a pistol shoved in his mouth, but people aren't always going to be around to do that, and once I was back overseas it started up again.

    So you go on ahead and stfu with your I did it, it's so easy fucking attitude and actually try to help someone rather than turning to the Internet to talk shit.