There's a line somewhere between accepting that the Russian conscripts have a choice, somewhere, that they are making in not defecting or going AWOL and actively wishing for the mass death of slave soldiers because of their nationality that you're on the wrong side of, fam.
The alternative is that the Russians kill Ukrainians and probably committing war crimes while doing so. As long as Putin continues this barbarism, there will be thousands of deaths per day. How do you want to distribute these between the Ukrainians and the Russians?