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Any good resources to fix "landlord special" renovations?
  • My first house was a rental for 12 years before I bought it, and it sounds like it was very much what you're describing. I don't want to give you advice, necessarily, but I can offer my experiences and perspective.

    A lot of what you'll be tempted to do is to "make better" and "correct" what someone else has done before you. It's tempting to just try and "fix" this sort of thing. I tried that route, and found that I spent far more time, money, and emotional labor doing that than if I just ripped out the whole thing, and started fresh. Once I started fresh, I was no longer reverse engineering a clusterfuck. That part seemed to be the most difficult.

    It's hard to convince yourself that starting fresh is less work and often less money for better results, so it's totally understandable that you may have to teach yourself that lesson by trying to fix bad work.

    Secondly, check out some of these YouTube channels where I learned a SIGNIFICANT amount about how to do things, or what to look for when I felt like I needed to hire someone.

    Scott Brown carpentry: Construction, renovation, and a great attitude every Friday

    Samurai Carpenter: Look for the videos about 4-5 years ago when he was renovating his house

    Tile Coach: bathrooms/showers

    Home Renovision DIY: he's got a video for damned near everything

    Finish Carpentry TV: (older episodes) for trim, doors, general finish carpentry

    Insider carpentry: Also finish carpentry, often tailored to the business side of things or focusing on production environments. However, tons of tips for regular folks

    Life uncontained: general house diy construction tasks

    Frank Howarth: Look for videos about 4-6 years ago about his house renovations

    Essential Craftsman: specifically the spec house build playlist

    Vancouver Carpenter: he's good with drywall stuff (so I hear)

    Additionally, anything else you want to do, just search YouTube. Watch a few different videos to get a feel for the parts of the task that everyone does the same way. You can also watch a few folks do it, then decide whether or not you think you're capable.

    If you're concerned about budget and tools, check Craigslist for both used tools and building materials. If you're ok with buying new tools, it's hard to go wrong with the Big 3: DeWalt, Makita, Milwaukee. Really, it just depends on what your favorite color is. Ultimately, you're committing to a battery style for all of your followup tool purchases, so just keep that in mind.

    Full disclosure: my wife and I re-did every room in that house, which is why when we moved, we built new because we absolutely did want to do that again. It's WORK. It's satisfying and rewarding work that gives you much more confidence in yourself, however.

    Good luck, and feel free to PM me if you have questions

  • [Weekly thread] It's Wednesday, which movies have you been watching?
  • I watched Alien Romulus last night. It was pretty meh. I appreciated some of the other movies in the universe that covered new ground, but Romulus was basically

    Tap for spoiler

    "trapped in a spaceship with aliens," which been pretty well covered by the series so far.

  • People older than 35: do you remember the first time you used a GPS device to get somewhere?
  • Yeah, it was one of these when I was in the army: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Precision_Lightweight_GPS_Receiver

    This didn't necessarily precede civilian GPS devices, but this was during the accuracy "embargo." Certainly though, GPS devices available to the public were cost prohibitive at that time. Later, someone bought me a Garmin for because they thought it would be useful to me in the military. I didn't have the heart to tell them I'd never need it because of the existence of very accurate military GPS devices. It was a very thoughtful gift from a family member who was a veteran

  • To the girls here: what action or social behaviour/etiquette you think you can get away doing/not doing that you couldn't if you were a man?
  • Hi, man here. I obviously can't speak for women, but I can answer your question from my perspective.

    "Girl" is a term used for young, inexperienced, non-adult female humans. When you call an adult woman a girl, you imply that she, her thoughts, and opinions are juvenile, and therefore are not to be taken as seriously as those of an adult of equal standing among other adults. It's called "infantilizing" and is disrespectful to that women, and realistically to all women.

    For a moment, imagine you're with another man you don't know and when you say something, he contradicts you and begins to address you as "boy" or "son" in his response. His intent is to diminish you as a person and make you feel small, inferior or less a man or expert as him.

    Now, I don't know what country you come from or if English is your first language; this cultural aspect can apply to other English speaking countries, but specifically I'm talking about the US. One could certainly be forgiven for speaking English as a second language or not being from the US and not knowing this specific thing. I hope this helps.

    One last edit, or this is going to bother me:

    Really... Being called girl is offensive now 🙄...

    Responding like this makes me think you're just an asshole and not interested in the actual reason, so perhaps I've wasted my time with you. That's ok, because maybe there are other people out there around who can read this and then correct you in public for this shitty behavior

  • When was the last time you felt guilt about something, as in that emotional pit you noticeably feel in your stomach when you have done something wrong towards someone?
  • I just put myself in that scenario and had the thought "man, what if she's flustered about something else, and having a rough day in general, then I go and swoop in and basically accuse her of being poor in public. She'd feel terrible and I will have made her day worse."

    You would have walked out of there feeling like shit in two of the three ways that could have gone. Don't beat yourself up over it; clearly you're empathetic and care about people. That tells me you DO act when it's appropriate and you do want to be a positive force in this world. Congratulations! The world is better with you in it

  • www.cpr.org Tina Peters guilty: Former Mesa County clerk convicted on 7 charges

    Tina Peters was on trial for facilitating a security breach of her office’s election equipment in 2021.

    Tina Peters guilty: Former Mesa County clerk convicted on 7 charges
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