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How much is that remote job worth to you? Americans will part with pay to work from home
  • This should be standard, people don't become less productive when working from home. Vast majority of wfh folks I know spend more time and are more productive at home. If my company tried to pull this nonsense (it wouldn't because its actually a great place to work) I'd immediately start looking for a different job. On Linkedin and other platforms I literally don't even consider or look at non wfh positions.

    Also I don't know what jobs are thinking. Its stupid to think someone will change jobs for less pay and move into a non-wfh position from a wfh one. Those jobs should always be avoided, because they clearly think you're too stupid to do basic math.

  • Relationship Mechanics Work Because The Game's Creatives Value Human Complexities
  • I feel like the relationship with Lae'zel grows a lot over the course of the game. But you have to really commit to going that route.

  • Relationship Mechanics Work Because The Game's Creatives Value Human Complexities
  • As someone who is generally a fan of your first 2 points, the latter two really get to me sometimes. I like the characters being forward, but if I indicate that I'm not interested I'd like them to kinda back off. Sometimes I don't even talk to certain companions because all their dialogue options are veiled flirtations. I'd like some characters to be friends and others to be romance options.

    Gale is just a straight menace, every single interaction feels romance adjacent. Halsin keeps hinting at it, not nearly at the level of Gale but definitely is a constant undertone. Shadowheart was on my multi-romance train but, I decided to go forward with Laezel so I had to cut that one off. So Shadowheart is firmly in the friendly companion camp now.

    Karlach, Astarion, Wyll, and Shadowheart are my mostly not too flirty companions. Astarion in particular has been great, I think I pissed him off in the early game with all my good choices so he just acts like a good friend. Which I appreciate.

    I honestly didn't realize that affinity would activate romance mode for everyone. I just didn't want to piss some characters off and make them leave the party because they hated my character. Also didn't want to miss any affinity related (non-romance) quests.

    Also shoutout to the biggest bro, my non-companion, Dame Aylin. She's the bro that I want my other friend companions to be.

  • Do you roll with failures or do you load and try for your "expected" outcome?
  • Depends on how invested I am into the outcome. The less invested in the outcome I am, the more I let the dice decide. If I dislike the outcome enough I will reset to an earlier save.

  • Could we improve men’s mental health?
  • I'd be interested in petting doggos and hanging out if that's what you mean by tailored, but not any traditional therapy. Going affects my employment opportunities, which I care about far more than my mental health. If I wanted to not suffer everyday of my life I'd shift my priorities, expectations, push my boundaries or off myself. Since I haven't done those things yet, things must be fine enough.

    I would have a very bad opinion of any version of myself that was happy or content while being aware of all the terrible things we human beings get up to.

    The only way I could be convinced to genuinely engage with therapy is if I thought it'd achieve some material goal of mine like making more money. Proving some positive correlation in earnings or attainment of things that men normally want with therapy would probably help. I'd reluctantly go and commit completely if I thought it'd significantly improve the likelihood of achieving my current or future goals. No dogs necessary at that point, just data.

  • Baldur’s Gate 3 Reignites Age-Old Save Scumming Debate - IGN
  • Save scumming is the only way I can tolerate games like this. For as awesome as the game is (very awesome) sometimes consequences fall within the range of acceptability and sometimes they don't. When they don't, save scumming is what keeps me from putting the game down for good.

  • "The Quest Board" - [Swords]
  • For good measure, I love these saccharine bullshit comics.

  • So tired of Adobe. They're part of the problem.
  • It would certainly be nice to have more Linux and open source projects, but that doesn't seem to be this projects goal. I suspect that there's a market for not always online adobe style products, even with piracy I'm sure the money is a lot better than donations. Also could you share what your definition of commercial elitism is?

  • Self-care for Men?
  • Just establishing enough stability in my life to have one day predictably proceed the next while I enjoy all my favorite things and keep my sanity intact.

  • Frontend vs backend
  • Specialists, ah I wish I could experience that. Maybe then I would be able to see my long lost love c++ again. Instead, I must give my love freely. Javascript, Java, Kubernetes, Go, many names flit through when profit is the goal. Someday maybe, hopefully, ChatGPT will end my tired soul.

  • looking for recommendations - non-horny
  • Lots of good recommendations already, I'll add some as well. Which should all be pretty much as non-fanservicey, loli, and misogyny free as isekai and fantasy anime get.

    For something chill, an isekai that makes you want to eat

    • Restaurant to Another World

    Gritty Fantasy Isekai

    • Grimgar: Ashes and Illusions

    Fun Romping Around Fantasy Isekai

    • In the Land of Leadale

    For the whole package of romance, fantasy, and a quality story

    • Maoyu ~ Archenemy & Hero

    Funny and Fun Isekai

    • So I'm a Spider, So What?

    Isekai to make you think

    • Haibane Renmei

    Old School Isekai

    • The Vision of Escaflowne
  • Chonky street hotrod
  • Very cute, he's a serious cat, doing serious lounging.

  • SFW magazine randomly "related to" NSFW magazine
  • Does the site have a tagging system? Also it could just be that the descriptions share terms or users of one are members of both communities.