Gay men are the wrong group to emulate, being attracted to men as a man gives only a little insight into what women want. Dress like a masc lesbian if you want to be attractive to women.
Where I live masc lesbians dress like grunge fans from the early 90’s. I mean, torn jeans and a short-sleeve plaid button-down worn open over a white t-shirt isn’t the worst look to rock, but I’m not sure how many straight women are gonna go for it these days.