If you were a rich man... What would you do?
Obviously this is for both, men and women, you know, the song "if I was a rich man" and i saw the meme with...
sigh just answer the question
I'm really sorry but I can't see it that way. Your had something, the 5 percent of something is better than the 100 percent of nothing.
Same, I hate how you can't do anything with single inside hobbies, but I can't fake interest in outside stuff
I hate how people say volunteer or activism all the time as a suggestion, many of us don't care about any type of cause or crusade and faking interest just to get friends or laid is even worse
I'm older than you and never had sex. Masturbation feels nice at first, then the amount of pleasure decreases once you get used to your hand.
No I'm tired and don't fit in those places. Also stop trying to insult me. Again, taking care of yourself means being successful. I'm not.
The closest that I've been in a relationship
Sometimes I forget this happened, but it was so long ago, I copied this from a comment I made, but edited it a bit more here...
2003 - 2004?
Middle school or early high school (I don't understand well your USA system), one girl asked me to be her bf (maybe as a joke idk, her 2 friends were with her and basically told her to speak to me), i literally did a 180 and said bye, just wasn't into those things yet, only cared about watching Digimon and stuff. Typical nerd with thick glasses.
I always considered her physically unattractive but she was mostly a sweet heart with everyone, soft spoken, her mom was a religion teacher at our school.
Anyways, next year, hormones were doing its job I guess, she looked the same ugly duckling to me, but she also... I dunno, like something was calling me towards her. Funnily enough we got closer and for a short while became friends (since we got paired to do homework and stuff together a couple of times at school) and I though many years later, even to this day "man, I should've said yes, even if it was a prank or a short thing".
She became the girlfriend of the only "jock" (for you Americans) of the class about 3 months after my "rejection".
And that pretty much is my only type of relationship with the other sex. Never felt in love or got into a relationship. Even if the whole thing was a cruel prank to make fun of me, that would've been better than not experiencing anything and still dateless to this day. Especially since as a kid you don't need money, dress well, speak well or a car to really start dating (especially in a poor country like mine), meanwhile as an adult in mid 30s, in Europe is basically mandatory plus having great social skills.
Not at "one that got away story really " but... Middle school or early high school (I don't understand well your USA system), one girl asked me to be her bf (maybe as a joke idk), i did 180 and said bye, just wasn't into those things yet, only cared about watching Digimon and stuff. Typical nerd with thick glasses.
I always considered her physically unattractive but she was a sweet heart with everyone, soft spoken, her mom was a religion teacher at our school.
Anyways, next year, hormones were doing its job I guess, she looked the same ugly duckling for me, but she also... I dunno, like something was calling me towards her and I though many years later, even to this day "man, I should've said yes, even if it was a prank or a short thing".
She became the girlfriend of the only "jock" (for you Americans) of the class about 3 months after my "rejection".
I can't all this action happend at the school for deaf people, those deaf get pipe
Wait... Do I have an office?
It doesn't matter how hot you're if your sex acting is this terrible and the story is distractingly stupid lol
My personal top 50 anime openings
Had to re-upload the video and edit some audio... And yet YouTube still blocked it 😒
Not really, one of my favourite games of all time came recently and it wouldn't be possible to exist without more current tech plus I like modern phones more and more
At least you got into a relationship, have you own place and family. I bet I'm older than you and got nothing of that. You're lucky
Edit:Yeah, you're younger. Dude I'm a failed virgin without a place and can't drive, you can do a lot worse
At least you got into a relationship, have you own place and family. I bet I'm older than you and got nothing of that. You're lucky
Edit:Yeah, you're younger. Dude I'm a failed virgin without a place and can't drive, you can do a lot worse
You eventually get sick of it, plus it's cold and when you MUST to go outside to do stuff is a pain in the ass
I'm using YouTube right now... Just me or the comment section has been removed from the app?
Like, it's gone, in both legal app and "the other one" I got...
Being loved or at least desired by someone must be nice
If you read my previous post on other place I asked about dating and most responses sounded like it was nice. Yes, I'm aware that relationships are not only good times (I've seen my mother being tired of her partner and scared of my father) but when you have literally NOTHING in your life you can't help to idolising the things you never had...
I don't think that's weird, but it's definitely sad
Have you ever dated someone? What is like?
Time ago I asked about what sex feels like... Now I want to know the more sentimental part what is like... Curious
For those who work at night... Do you have any problems to falling asleep and waking well rested during the day?
For me is like my body can't decide, sometimes I can, sometimes I wake up exhausted.
Anyone else here that DOESN'T watch anime anymore?
I sometimes click in some random clip of current anime someone uploaded on YouTube, like I dunno attack on titan or chainsaw dude, but that's it. They look cool but despite having the time to watch it I just don't feel compelled to watch the whole show.
I guess it's like the Netflix virus, that you keep scrolling and picking what you wanna watch and at the end you don't watch anything and go back to sleep. Plus, maybe it's the depression, but I don't like when things end most of the time. I feel empty, it doesn't happen with movies but with anime happens, especially when the main character is a dude. The usual end is that he beats the bad guy (or triumphs in life if the show isn't about punching people) gets the hot anime girl, and ends... I guess since I can't get any of that irl it hits me hard.
The fact you can't tell anyone to go f themselves online anymore without getting banned is absurd and sad
YouTube? Deleted comment. Twitter? Banned, Reddit? Shadow banned and blocked Xbox live? You get kicked out online mode despite you are PAYING for it. You can't express your anger or hate towards other people without some kind of freedom.
No I'm not saying that RACISM or serious accusations should be allowed, but a simple "fuck u" gets you eliminated. Is depressing.
Unemployed, one year later.
Please just read without judging me, I'm up to conversation as long as you don't tell "you can do it!" Or "man up bitch" I don't need that type of dialogue, I've been beaten enough, even by my own family.
35 M.
My depression and loneliness had fucked me over enough last year and since I quit my abusive job (underpaid, boss screaming at job, no benefits, hated everyone, shit conditions) things aren't getting better. The fact I can't get a job even at a fast food sucks (some of you Americans complain about having that job, you're LUCKY to have that)... Job apps don't work or always ask for experience, I can't even get an Amazon warehouse job (I've seen people that can't even talk the language here well getting that job, so I guess I'm cursed). Nobody calls and no, you can't just knock random doors of warehouses expecting to give you a job, even worse if you're an immigrant.
My mother has enough of me living with them and I can't blame her I'm old ass virgin dude that will never get married but seems that everything is against me and I'll never move out. The world decided to just fuck me over again and again. The fact I can't get a job is killing me. I don't have money for studies and this country doesn't offer trade jobs education for people like me I've never been a good student anyways, I need the money NOW. Shit, I controlled this shitty town web page and hasn't been updated in a year. The job help is a joke for anyone like me. The only reason I'm not sleeping under a bridge is because of my mother.
Sometimes I google painless ways to die.
My father sometimes calls me saying I should go back to him in our home country, leave Europe, but for what? He lives in a shitty place, he's unemployed too and barely eats despite being 10x more of a man that i am... That would be a death sentence for someone like me. I have no escape anywhere.
Sorry if this post bothers you in any way, but I needed this. I have zero human contact with anyone besides my family.
What smartphone do your use? What's the best phone you had owned?
Moi? I use currently a NOTE 20 ultra 5g. Probably my second best phone, I only hate the fact it's so massive (I miss being able to use just one hand for my phone) and the mediocre battery life for someone like me that watches a lot of videos. But the S pen is so handy those few times you need it.
How do you battle depression by your own?
AKA please, don't tell me "get professional help". Poor people can't afford it anyways.
Can you have a conversation with a stranger? do you have them often?
Because I honestly can't. I can barely talk with the very few people I know. Is just so out of my range. That's why I don't have friends or a partner and I don't see that changing.
EDIT: no, responding comments here or asking this question ISN'T having a conversation for me. So I don't feel this as "progress".