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Not knowing how money works, yet running a business
  • You left the conditions for "acceptable behavior" as "common and rote". The point of the extremity was to demonstrate that this is a bad definition. Your revulsion to the comparison would indicate you understand this on some level, though that assertion is flimsier.

    Well yeah, of course you can look up the questions and plan out answers. Hell, many of the questions are useful to ask. And get good results. I would further recommend that to prospective interviewees in spite of the heartburn the idea gives me. I'll play the damned game but that doesn't mean it doesn't rub me the wrong way. Familiarity does not necessarily breed comfort. Sometimes all you get is resignation to an unpleasant task. But that wasn't my point.

    The point was this particular, common question is insulting and demeaning to everyone involved for no value to the interviewer and that the only plausible justification for it boils down to "its tradition" (which is a stupid reason to keep it) and further incentivizes character features that I hazard are socially detrimental (brown nosing and lying are not typically positive traits).

  • Not knowing how money works, yet running a business
  • I can accept the song and dance interpretation of things, but contest that it isn't degrading and ultimately either useless or arguably detrimental. To go as extreme as possible: slavery was once common and rote and that did not make it anything less than a dehumanizing crime against humanity. Being common does not make it OK. There are better options and holding on to things because that's how it's always been is a fallacy.

    To follow up, and reveal my own biases, the song and dance is hard for many people who are neurodivergent (and presumably some subset of neurotypicals, but I can't really speak from experience there). I'm a bad liar. It's one thing to selectively pick facts and let people make assumptions (which I'm meh at at best, and need prep for and don't enjoy doing) and another to openly make shit up on the fly (or have your bullshit prepared in advance). And for people such as myself that are bad at and uncomfortable with directly lying, despite my qualifications, now I'm screwed because society values dishonesty for some deeply stupid reason. And just riding the wave at this point: is incentivizing brown nosing and lying really what we want? Because that seems like a bad incentive.

  • Not knowing how money works, yet running a business
  • Yeah, if someone is being a cunt and saying that, sure. Most people have the good sense to be friendly during an interview and if they can't manage that, I have no defense for them.

    But you don't even need this question to judge friendliness. The question is completely worthless and is very "dance monkey dance". I asks the applicant to degrade themselves by lying to your face about some higher meaning for no useful information to the interviewer. As I said, there are way better questions to ask.

  • Not knowing how money works, yet running a business
  • Sure, but depending on the field, there is no difference from one job to another. I can do data analysis on your engine, your electrical grid, your stupid app. It's all numbers to me. Going through the motions of pretending I was called by destiny for your company is insulting to both of us. Same category as a damned cover letter. I had ChatGPT write whatever I thought would get me in the door and you honestly shouldn't trust a single one ever.

    If you can find that special someone that really does have a thing for your company, neat. Otherwise, maybe don't use this question because you're probably just going to learn how well the applicant can brown nose. There are plenty of interview questions to choose from that might yield useful data.

  • This Planet's On Fire (Burn In Hell)
  • So clarify what I can do. I vote, so that's out of the way.

    Donate? With what money?

    Help/run campaigns? With what time and/or money?

    Be informed? I generally am and a fat lot of good it did.

    Inform others? Not an influencer, so no reach. The few crazies I am adjacent to I either can't discuss things with because it'd be unprofessional and I don't want to lose my job or they drank deep of the Kool aid. And the non crazies are usually on my side even when I do have info they don't already know.

    Take people to the polls? Everyone for whom I could offer such a service early voted.

    So what power am I overlooking? I participate to the best of my ability and within my limited resources so what am I missing?

    Edit: How shocking, no response, just a downvote.

  • This Planet's On Fire (Burn In Hell)
  • Both obviously. I did my part and sanity lost in the US. I continue to have no meaningful power.

    Our lives are also on the list to lose. The health and well-being of those that depend on us as well. Losing our chains is great if that's really all you have to lose.

  • This Planet's On Fire (Burn In Hell)
  • The detachment is more of a defeatism issue. When you have zero power to affect change, what the hell else can you do but work through the day and try to not have a breakdown?

    Mind you, I vote when that comes around, I just don't have the mental fortitude anymore to not be detached. Don't have the time or space to do more than that, which is rather by design I expect.

  • Free Compliments @lemm.ee maniclucky @lemmy.world

    orphiebaby is awesome

    Not a sockpuppet.

    I was venting over at !goodoffmychest@lemmy.world about Reddit mods being... Reddit mods. On top of having a good version of offmychest that allows people to be angry at the things that are bugging them, orphiebaby went ahead and made a new community to replace the one I was venting about on behalf of my partner.

    Cheers to you orphiebaby! This isn't quite the spirit of the sub as I understand it, but you get praise anyway.

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    Fuck the mods of r/freecompliments and r/trueoffmychest too

    So I stopped generally using Reddit after the whole API thing but my husband still does and we talk about stuff since Lemmy gets the job done.

    One thing he likes is to hop on r/freecompliments and participate there.

    Well, today he got permanently banned. Why? Because a bot dredged his profile and found that he sometimes participates in porn subreddits. Usually to complement people there, never posting himself. He's pretty ace, so it's rarely, if ever, sexual. But that was enough for the bot to ban him.

    They sent a message about how they are sfw subreddit and don't allow users to participate in NSFW subreddits.

    He's heartbroken about it. He really likes to be nice to people and it makes his day when they respond to him. Now he can't do that in a sub that's meant for it.

    I feel like the site rules have opinions about banning like this, but it's not like the admins give a fuck. So fuck those mods and their puritanical bullshit making at least once persons day worse, for the low cost of a user that was participating in good faith.

    And since I'm on a roll, fuck spez

    I tried posting this to trueoffmychest to dredge some sympathy for him, since that seemed appropriate and he was good with it, but they don't allow 'anger' or 'impersonal' posts and that got quietly removed immediately. So fuck them too. I didn't realize how far down the shitter reddit has gone.

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