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Conservative parent is sad his daughters aren't coming for thanksgiving after voting for Trump
  • It's not always simple. I have a close family with a NC child, and he's highly autistic and had been living at home until his mid-20s until the decision. It's not rooted in politics or abuse, and ultimately everyone hopes that sooner or later he figures himself out. But the temptation is very strong to reach out; and the temptation to say he's acting ridiculously is, like, not even overcome. We do think he's being ridiculous. And we sometimes say it. But with sympathy because of the circumstances. I think the author of the original post is probably a tithead, because he voted Trump, but I don't see him as doing that much more than what we do about this lad. Except for do it publically. And also he's the one who's been cut out because all of them have gone NC. So maybe not a similar circumstance at all, but probably still similar local emotional justification - i.e. I bet he feels similarly in many respects to how we feel.

    Edit: I forgot to justify the relevancy. The point I was trying to gesture at with that was that moaning about it doesn't necessarily mean you think you're really owed. It's just moaning. But. As I was writing the comment I realised that actually the fact that he's doing it in a public forum under his own name is kinda different. And it goes from just moaning to, at minimum: chiding (since they could also see the message); public abuse (since their identities are - I assume - concludable from the message); and making himself the victim. So yeah actually I guess everything I said was probably all wrong, but I still rather like it as an exploration, even if it was of the wrong space, and I'm just gonna leave it up.

  • Dyk, Bobby?
  • Some trees do a bit, I guess? Like, beech trees will release some chemicals to inhibit other plant growth, and iirc their leaves do that as they decompose, as well as the root system itself. But depends on the plant and mostly bunk I believe.

  • It's all tied together
  • Yeah well fair play. I think you're cynical, wrong, and actively increasing the probability of your unwanted outcome coming to pass by your language, so I guess we both just very strongly disagree with each other. But at least we can do it politely so at least there's some hope.

  • It's all tied together
  • I instinctively downvoted this because 'copium' is one of those load words that carries distain without engagement. Why? Because they usually are unsuccessful. They usually fizzle out. Some authoritarian regimes achieve weight and have a war, but that's not always the case. UKs govt was borderline insane for, like, 8 years and that's kinda mellowed now. France has had its flirtations, but it never really stuck. And ultimately I'm an optimist. And the word 'copium' is just short hand for 'optimists are naive and wrong' which... feels unwarranted to me