Is there a conversational AI chat bot that isn't... So horny? Preferably free, but I'll pay a little bit of it's good.

You can probably just use any of the big chat programs, and just start out by telling it you want it to converse with you like it's just another person.

Gemini has that "live" feature where you can talk out loud and it sounds like you're talking to a real person. Combining that with pre-prompting for casual conversation is fairly convincing.

I send a lot of stuff through co-pilot and I've never gotten anything remotely sexual with it set to precise mode.

Do keep in mind that running your personal thoughts, questions, and ideas through an AI will probably get your personal thoughts, questions, and ideas fed into their marketing system.

If you have a half decent Nvidia card and some spare time to wait for responses to come back self-hosting Ollama isn't that difficult.

You could actually set your own guardrails up. in the config you could set up some post instructions for every prompt specifically instructing it not to get emotional.

The YouTuber Network Chuck recently did a decent video covering the set up and guardrail security.

Yes, this is exactly what I've found them to be the most useful for.

Here's a list:

• ChatGPT

Lemmy will hate me for this, but it remains the best chat it there is, especially if you subscribe to the pro version. There's different models but essentially it's just a good bot that will be really helpful giving you feedback on thoughts and ideas.

A to A- tier

• Gemini

Google AI chat bot which seems to be well received recently. I will be an asshole an assume it's not gonna be quite as good but it looks like they're sticking out now.

A- to B+ tier

• Bing / Copilot

Microsoft's AI attempt. It is an AI but it's only OK. Might get enough out of it for your purpose but it already has a long list of hiccups recorded so this is not something I would hang my head on all the time. Because it's got bing integration, generally the AI assisted search can be helpful though.

B tier

• Llama on huggingface

Basically an open source alternative to ChatGPT done well, although not quite as good. This Facebook's work which they are graciously providing free of charge for everyone to enjoy and tinker with. Huggingface is great because you will always find live demos of all the models there so if you are not a power user, in a limited way you can use this model on the website.

Between B and C tier

• Llama self setup

Llama is open source so it is possible to set it up yourself. Using the webui it is possible to do this on your own PC, removing the limitations for conversation speed and message counts. You will be struggling if your graphics card can't entertain the model though (good models eat vram for breakfast). If you have it setup, you will always get the best experience out of the Llama models which might make this worth it.

C tier

Other than those there are a lot of sites offering subscriptions to what is basically a different frontend for chatgpt or other open source models, which is arguably worse than all the options mentioned. There might be some gems in the rough but I haven't looked too far into it. This should give you an introductory overview though which is presumably more helpful to you.

I personally use ChatGPT and I am starting to appreciate it a lot. It does still lead ahead of Llama or anything else.

After reading your comments, it looks like what you're looking for is an AI that remembers your conversations. Generally an AI can only "remember" a specific amount of tokens (words iirc) and it will have amnesia about the rest.

I think the bigger Llama models will have high token cutoff as well as copilot (?) don't quote me on that tho.

We're not at the point where an AI will remember details for over a year from one conversation but if you always open a new conversation for a specific topic, you will already be able to get 90% of the way to where you want.

Good luck on your endeavors ;)

Wow, that's crazy

ELIZA? Or maybe just a rubber duck as used by programmers.

Literally any of the major LLMs.

I've never seen pi.ai do the things you describe

Kindroid you can even integrate them into Second Life

Honestly chatgpt with memory is pretty great, although privacy wise I’m very careful with what I say.

If you care about privacy more than your AI friend being smart try Claude or Mistral but that’s a significant downgrade in conversational quality.

I guess I should also add for clarity that I'm aware there are chatbots for free out there that can answer questions.

That's also not really what I'm looking for either. I don't need "how can I brew my own mead"

I'm looking for something in the middle. An AI that responds and remembers previous conversations we've had, not pushy with solutions but not a placation machine.

I'm not looking to pretend it's real, or that we are in love. A tool to express my thoughts out loud mostly to myself but more interactive than a bathroom mirror.

Edit: again to clarify. I mentioned my low bar expectation of "wow, that wild". My high bar, what I really a looking for is an AI that gives responses like "that sounds similar to the problem you mentioned last week, how did you handle that?"

So I can be like "yeah it is kinda similar, I didn't think about that"

That would be the high bar. I'd pay maybe $5 for that experience.

Final clarifying edit: after reading my own post I'm thinking to myself, if this was posted by someone else I'd answer with something like:

"Sounds like you're describing a therapist. AI therapists have a lot of issues but real human ones are getting cheaper with online appointments"

And that would be a very fair answer. Although I might benefit from a therapist, we all would. I'm talking more about mundane daily thoughts and talking to a therapist daily even online would be expensive.

I mean, ChatGPT?

If you need a personality, try HammerAI. You can create your own characters using explicitly SFW models (I mean NGL most of the public models are porn, but there are normal ones too). It all runs locally so you have a lot of control over it... Not as flashy as others, of course.

You're losing it brother

Why not simply host your own LLM and leverage that beefy gaming GPU you very likely own to do the work?

RTX chat

Yeah and what's the point of lewd pics if the sender of them doesn't feel a little weird and exposed about it?

If you have a computer and graphics card you could try some local llms. They are pretty awesome and you get to keep your days. I use oobabooga and stable diffusion with Silly Tavern as the glue to hold it together. I get model cards from character Hub

Eliza

I was on the same lookout a little while ago and wasn't able to find anything online that checked all my boxes and I feel like we're another generation away from these being more useful in more circumstances. Firefox chat has a few different models you can try easily. If you want to bother signing up just to sample some models you can try app.skyfire.xyz. I use one of those temp mails to try it.

whatever happened to chatrooms, simple meditation, or therapy? it'd be better if your personal drama didn't emit as much carbon dioxide as your commute